For the past month, he has been busy trying to get us out of the financial mess we are in...he made a bad investment. He hasn't had time to take me out so I've been hanging around with my 30 year old sister and her friends who are really handsome and have well paying jobs. I enjoy being around them because the why take my mind off our situation but boyfriend doesn't like it. Nothing happens between us though, just flirting and drinks
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First off, what kind of investment was made? If it put him in bad straights financially, he can't afford to take you out right now. Have you thought of being a creative girlfriend and have a "date night in" and watch a movie? How about suggesting spending time together taking a walk? There are other ways you can be close without hanging out at bars and restaurants which are very costly.
The tone of your question belies the fact that you are very seriously considering leaving him over money. Girls don't flirt with other guys "harmlessly". He has every right to be suspicious of you hanging around a bunch of successful guys who are good looking. Your intentions might not be honorable. He has no way of knowing that. If you want to make your relationship work, you need to stat getting creative to overcome the financial affairs and spend time together inexpensively until he can afford to take you out again, not putting yourself into temptation with other men.0