I asked a girl I met online to dinner, she said she'd rather do coffee, saying that she had tons of homework.
We've been getting along very well for the past week or so chatting through texts and IMs. So I'm wondering, is she really just trying to get home early for homework or is she not as interested as I thought she was?
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Could really go either way. Coffee/lunch is a very neutral environment to meet up and chat for the first time. It doesn't hold the same stereotypical expectations as dinner and a movie would. Girls often feel that if you go and spend money on th em, they are obligated to put out.. whether they actually DO put out or not will depend on the girl, but some simply diffuse the situation by offering a more laid-back venue. If you talk frequently, she wants to talk to you, and that should be a given. She may be behind on her homework, you can't really tell because you don't really know her yet. If she's more comfortable with coffee, go from there. :)0