I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. Lately I've been going out(nothing more) with an older guy with a nice job and more secure future, not because of that but because we have fun (drinks and nice dinners) I needed to get my mind off the depressing situation at home..my boyfriend made a bad investment and he has been very busy trying to make up for it, it's not fun at home. What are the chances my boyfriend will get back on his feet? I'm not getting any younger and I want to settle down.
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So it's "not fun at home"...is it only because of the money situation? When times are tough, two people that love each other are drawn closer together, not further apart. On top of that, you have 2 different types of people in the world: those that care more about money/security/wealth/power, and those that care about compassion/love/helping others. (And those who haven't made up their mind yet.) If you don't feel you love the boyfriend at home enough to stick with him through this crisis, then be honest with him and be prepared to leave, because one thing a guy needs from a girlfriend is loyalty (if she loves him) and support. Without it, he'll leave you anyway. But if you feel you would be happier in life with the "older guy", even after your looks are gone and you're using a walker or wheelchair, then go with him - but be honest with the guy you're living with.1