Have you ever dated someone for a long period of time and then just stopped seeing them?
Did you ever date someone whom you saw everyday for years straight and then it just ended suddenly and harshly? no communication... just over... no texts, no emails, no phone calls, not even a sighting around town... they are just gone...
if so how do you cope with this situation? I know time passes and feelings fade, but for years straight they were part of your life.
I personally can't get her out of my head no matter how hard I try. everyday I think about her. I know towards the end she caused me more pain then love and I know now we were both young and immature.
I have no idea what I would say to her if I ever saw her again. I guess only time will tell. It is a small world and it is quite possible that our paths will cross again, but I'm not counting on it. Funny enough I know I could contact her through the internet, but where is the fun in that?
Has anyone else ever gone through a situation quite like this?
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I once dated a guy for around a year then it ended and we both went our separate ways and haven't spoken in 4 years, maybe even 5 years. I had known him for years before we started dating but the break up was for the best because we just weren't right for each other. I met someone else about 6 months later and that helped me to really move on. But now, I have been dating that guy for over 3 years and we are currently going through a break up and live together, but as soon as I get my own place I will have to cut him out of my life because he really hurt me and I just can't move on with him around all the time. He wants to remain friends but I can't get over what he did to me and it is time for a fresh start.
I actually don't know how I will deal with this because we were really close all these years and he helped me through some rough times. I guess I will just take it one day at a time and as I have new experiences and make new friends my thoughts of him will become less and less.0