ok, now I need to know if a 16 year old, seeing a 21 year old is bad? I know its tabbo right now, but look at it this way, whe the chick is 18, he will be 23... that's not even half as bad. so why can't it be acceptable when she's 16? yes I know som of you will be seeing it asw he is a preditor or w/e, but what if I told you that he was the one who said he didn't wana have sex till she was 18? I just need some help pleesssee
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I'm afraid I also question this ethic. I've seen spans as much as 12 years between partners which means that the guy was 18 when his wife was 6.
15 is the cut off point for anybody over 18 in my opinion to acctually date, the thing that people need to understand is there is a difference between dating and having sex. At 16, to date a 21 year old, I don't think much of it, particurally when he says he doesn't want sex until she's 18.
If schools would acctually invest in sex ed it wouldn't be such a big deal after a while. The biggest issue is a lot of kids at 15, 16, 17 think they know everything there is to know about sex and in reality they really don't, if sex ed was standardized everybody would be a lot better off...
So, I appolgize for my mini rant, in short I don't think it's bad at all, I don't give it a second thought.1