what if I'm not attracted to him for what he's attracted to me for? I've gotten a lot of "go for the guy that's attracted to you" comments in the past. what if he's attracted to me for the wrong reasons?
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If he's strongly attracted to beauty, and he thinks that you're the most beautiful person in the world, then he's attracted to you for the right reason.
If he's attracted to nurturing people, and he thinks that you'd be a great person to have kids with, then he's attracted to you for the right reason.
If what he wants is to be with a nurturing person, and he's with you because he thinks you're beautiful and he can't do any better, and you can't fulfill his emotional needs, then he's with you for the wrong reason, and the relationship will probably eventually end.
But you don't get to decide what his reasons ~should be~. That's not how it works.1