I honestly got tired of dating and relationships and most importantly tying to get a girlfriend. I just don't seem to be going anywhere, and it hits my self-esteem getting rejected constantly and also trying to be this prototype person that all women like. Women are also too confusing any ways, they are too much work and the worst is, is that ai almost never get rewarded for my efforts anyways.
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If you need to take a break from dating, take a break.
Discover yourself. Hang out with friends, get into your hobbies, follow your dreams...you're still young enough to make your biggest ones a reality. Be creative. Improve yourself in every way imaginable--whether physically (through exercise), socially, intellectually, etc.
In the meantime, if you want, continue approaching girls. No, you can't make a girl want to be your girlfriend...but you will get closer to that goal the more you put yourself out there. Stop letting rejection damage your self-esteem...it's not about you, it's about the girl and a snap judgment SHE'S making. She's missing her chance with you. And you're the man, the "decider" anyway...you get to decide if SHE'S good enough to be with you, not the other way around. If she walks away without getting to know you, she's obviously failed the test.
But again, if you need to, take a break. While you're working on yourself, something might magically happen...an awesome girl may come along and be powerfully attracted to your developing self-confidence. It happens all the time to guys who seek to improve themselves.0