I think everybody reaches a breaking point, when they just don't want to deal with crap anymore. I think I have reached that point, I have being rejected, humiliated and ignored so many times that I don't think I can take it anymore. Also women to me seem very selfish and ungrateful, to me they seem to only care about themselves and they barely care what men do for them and they can do whatever they want just because they are women.
How can I be possitive towards women and not bitter when all of what I had is bad experiences?
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Unless you've been physically abused by women all your life, I just don't see how you can have this level of hatred and justify it.
Rejected? We all get rejected. Big deal. Doesn't stop us asking women out. As the great Gretsky said, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. So take the shot.
Ignored? Again, so what. Women have the right to ignore who ever they want. As do men. The solution is to make yourself more interesting, not to start hating women.
Humiliated? I find it hard to believe. Most women are not bitches who go around trying to humiliate men. However I can totally imagine a guy with an over-inflated sense of entitlement and a fragile ego being "humiliated" by the sort of things which should slide right off his back.
Whatever it was that got you this level of hatred, is definitely coloring your opinion of women.
That's what you need to deal with. Whatever it was that got you to this level of hatred, needs to be realistically re-evaluated.
A child can go crying in anger, whimpering "Please god, kill her" about his mother because she won't let him watch cartoons, but it'd be really f***ed up to see a grown man either still carrying the hate from that incident, or reacting in that way.
It should be possible to look back at whatever incidents you have in your past, and cognitively reframe them with some flippin maturity.1
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