but guys are not allowed to want a girlfriend to complete their life, to make them feel better about themselves. It really angers me, pisses me off, makes me jealous of girls, as to why girls have it so much easier when it comes to dating and relationships, boyfriend/girlfriend during the attraction process. Girls can be insecure and get a guy, but guys can't be insecure. Basically insecure girls can get a guy, but insecure guys will almost never get a girl. It really pisses me off. Why do guys have to better themselves more than girls do in order to be dating and relationship material? It's like, any girl can get a boyfriend, but only the "best guys" can get a girlfriend, so guys have to be a "best guy"
Girls are allowed to want a boyfriend to complete their life, to make them feel better about themselves?
What Girls Said 2
It's sucks that women have standards and won't settle for anti social, socially awkward, unattractive retards who have no confidence. How dare we have standards.
Anyone seeking validation by entering into a relationship is going to have a hellish awakening cause no amount of love or attention will magically make them confident, complete or happy.
But how dare we. We should indeed settle for losers6
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Someone else has directed me here to answer your question. Well, I remember seeing this yesterday and I had an answer and I'll try and copy it down here. Girls have to be a certain way to get a boyfriend too! How many guys do you know that will take any girl- clingy? OK, jealous and hates girls? OK, ugly? OK, smells bad, doesn't keep up personal hygeine? sure why not, slutty? OK, and the list goes on and on. A guy would never go for a girl that is clingy, jealous, smells bad, or slutty. Why would he, if he respects himself and others around him? All people have to take responsibility for themselves and be their own best person- girls are no different when it comes to that.2
What Guys Said 9
girls won't admit it, but instinctively, naturally, they do have higher standards, they have to, since they get pregnant and have to carry the baby for 9 months, they can produce a limited number of offspring in their lives, we guys can father infinite number of guys, so the reason why I guess insecurity is a bigger turn off to them than it is to us, is because they want to feel safe and protected because of the subconscious instint, they want the guy to have father qualities, they feel a secure guy will make a better father for her potential, future kids8
Because women are expected to be flaky and emotional...you're not. I see where you're coming from, but so what? If it really irritates you that much then don't even bother, find something productive to do with your time.4
Its all due to woman being more independent and confident in themselves, sounds kinda crude but its kinda true :/
Now Alpha males will have a good place in society but all the other regular guys, like us, have to compete like mad just to get a normal relationship.
All in all though, is it a BAD THING? I don't think so, I mean cmon. It's a chance for you to become a better man, a improved person in order to find a girl, sounds like a Win Win to me2
There are more women in the world than there are men. So, just stop!2
This is an excellent question that I've been waiting for a long time, the reason I didn't ask it was because I didn't know how to piece my thoughts in to words as well as you did.
Sadly I think this is the way it is, but recently I've noticed that girls want to be equal to men even more each year. I've also noticed that they are starting to act more like men now. maybe they'll get sex changes too, who knows. over time they will change more and more.0
i guess biology, evolution plays a role here0
I never had a problem to work hard to be a confident and successful guy. What I won't take though is some girls believing and acting like they are better than me though they haven't done squat with their lives. Sitting on your ass and being a total bitch don't count as achievements, sorry.1
The vast majority of girls that try to 'complete their life' with a boyfriend find out the hard way what a grave mistake that is. Co-dependency usually ends badly.6
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