If I message hundreds of girls surely a few will want to meet me? Thoughts?
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Hey! I like that strategy! Like if I send out an email to 10,000,000,000 addresses offering herbal enhancements, and only 0.0001% of people answer, I still get rich!
Seriously, someone else mentioned that girls get like 10 messages a day. That's wrong. It can be in the HUNDREDS. Mass contacting can backfire if you are sending out, "Hey, what's up?" messages. Some ladies on the sites are friends, and will share there messages with each other from all the desperate leg-humpers. ON THE OTHER HAND, if you take a few minutes to actually read the ladies' profiles, make sure you have a fair amount in common and match at least most of their criteria, and send out a personalized message that is different for each one, there's nothing at all wrong with contacting 100s of women a day.
Remember, you are one of possibly thousands of messages she will see each week. If you want a chance at a follow-through make sure to READ and RESPOND TO her profile.
I have several single lady friends on various dating sites, and boy do I get to hear the stories.0