I like this girl and I might be seeing some good signs I kind of want to hang out and get to know her but not really have it be a date. Maybe just coffee or something. I don't know if I really want to have it be a date.
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You're looking for something casual? That's a good start. She probably doesn't care what it is, she would just be happy to see you.
Here are some good ideas: Also she can pay for herself, and if she's the independent type like me then she will always want to. If she does pay for herself, then its casual and not a "Date"..
Have it be something during the day (late afternoon after 3pm) so it's in between lunch and dinner.
Go somewhere that has coffee/ice cream by the harbor.. or a place where you two can sit and talk and walk around. Then you two can get to know each other casually and maybe have a better understanding of each other.
Don't say "Hey want to grab coffee" uhg. So typical.. name a street or plaza that has shops/places to eat/and coffe shops for ex: "Hey do you want to meet up "place" at around "time" to hang out and walk around?" then she'll answer "yeah" then you say "cool" .. then when you both arrive "you can say oh there's coffee I want some, what do you want" ..she won't expect you to pay since you asked it so casually.
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