I was casually seeing this guy for a few months. We always hit off and had a lot in common. It also appeared he was openly dating other people because on myspace he would always have comments from girls like see you tomorrow or when are we going to hang out. This guy is 40 years old and most of his friends are like 22 to 25. The other day we had words via texting. After my text to him his only response was "whatever". I have not heard from him at all in 4 days now. Was his whatever pretty much a f*** off and I can expect to never hear from him again?
Am I being blown off?
What Guys Said 1
Firstly, the girls on his MySpace could just be female friends and wanna hang out with him as he seems like a cool guy. Please don't automatically assume that he is dating other girls, unless you know this is conclusive. Also you are both not officially an item so he feels he can date other girls. Its clear you have feelings for this guy, have you spoken to him about how he feels? Its important that you both establish where your both heading.
Secondly the text. I do find that texting a serious conversatioon can often backfire as texts can be misintepreted. I always feel talking face to face is the best, other at least on the phone so you can grasp what the other person is feeling. It seems like he replied "whatever" as he may possibly have been annoyed by your previous text. Did you reply back to him since? If not, he may be thinking your off with him and therefore both of you are not contacting each other.
I advise you contact him and ask to see in person so you can both chat. That way you can rekindle what you had and gives you the opportunity to tell him how you feel about him, hopefully edging you 2 more closer and talking it further.0
What Girls Said 1
No one will be able to answer this. We don't know the guy. It could really go either way. If he's the type of guy that would not talk after whatever fight then yes that may have been it. Then again, he could just need some time to cool off. I don't even know what the fight was about so really, it's a little hard to answer this. We are not mind readers.0
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