im 21 years old
MP (military police) in the national guard
college student-- 3.1 GPA
in excellent physical shape
pursuing a career in law enforcement
good hygeine, I always smell nice
I am a bit quiet/reserved but friendly and personable
I have a lot of buddies, but few close friends
The last girl, well really the only girl I ever "dated" which lasted about a month, left me for a guy whom she had already fallen in love with before we ever even met. She was definitely attracted to me though; always wanting to kiss and makeout, holding my hand, grabbing/pinching my butt, and wanting to cuddle with me. I've been lead on by a lot of girls but nothing ever seems to come it, I have a lot of trouble understanding women..? I'm venting more than anything, but if anyone has any advice I'm all ears! thanks.
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wow, you'll never believe this but I am in the exact same situation. sophomore in college 19, biochemistry maj/pre-med, 3.9 GPA, volunteer firefighter/ EMT, freaking love going to the gym ( 5'4, long brown hair, green eyes, 36 C) I'm kinda reserved but friendly, people really like me and I have a great sense of humor.
i've only dated one guy, ( def. attracted to me) and he ended up cheated on me. Since then I've been " lead on" by 14+ guys and nothing has come out of it, never get that girlfriend request. I'm super clean, and I'm a virgin, don't do anything sexual with these guys unless they commit . I'm not bitchy, and I'm more of a tomboy in heels if anything. so...i feel your frustration! its almost starting to take a toll on my self confidence.
Now, if you could help me understand guys that would be great! but il do my best to help you understand our side if you have any specific questions/ trying to understand what happened in a certain situation! but...considering were in the same boat, I don't know if any of my general advice in regards to this problem would be helpful...or I would have helped myself!