I started talking to this guy about a week ago. We've only hung out twice and he's spent close to $300 on me on entertainment activities. He insists that I shouldn't pay for myself I'm with him. He's really sweet. I feel bad though. I'm not a gold digger at all so I get a bit uncomfortable with it. We're in college and only 19 so I'm not sure if I should let him do this for me?
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1. Should I let him spend all of this money on me?
To me as long as it's not illegal or hurts children/animals there's no should or shouldn't and it depends on your wants.
2. We're in college and only 19 so I'm not sure if I should let him do this for me?
If you're uncomfortable with it probably best suited to tell him that you want to pay for yourself and that you want to scale back on the expenses.
Also probably best suited to not let a guy pay for you as most guys tend to think spending money on you means they are buying you and you owe them sex.5