Ok so, this will be me and this girls first actual date together. She lives 3 hours away and I am driving up there to meet/pick her up. I know the first date is suppose to be really important so I want to make it count. I don't know the layout in her town, and don't know what to do. She said she will think of something, but is the fact I am not taking charge on the first date bad date etiquette.
Also are there any particular things girls expect or want on a first date I compliments, attitude, certain romantic gestures, and a kiss?
any help THANX
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Be polite. Most girls like chivalry: bring her flowers, open doors for her, give her your jacket if she's cold, give her your full attention while at dinner instead of texting, etc. And you should pick up the check given it's the first date otherwise she might think you are cheap. When you pick her up you should tell her how pretty she looks but only if you mean it. Don't talk excessively about yourself, ask her about her life and thoughts on things to show that you are not self-centered. But don't ask about her exes or other serious stuff, keep it light. And crack jokes! Girls like guys who make them laugh.
It should be fine if she picks what you're going to do on the date since you don't live there. The kiss? Some girls don't like to do that on the first date so a hug and a kiss on the cheek at the end will suffice, unless you're really feeling strongly otherwise.
The point is to have fun, so have fun!1