It was my first kiss.. should I tell him?

[bee1994]

This is my first kiss story;

My first kiss was actually last night! At my best friend's birthday party. I met him for the first time last night.. We were talking together all night. (Both were sober) We went outside for some fresh air. We talked and he asked me if I was cold (It was really cold outside), so I said yes. Then he hugged me for a while. He moved closer and before I knew it we were making out. With tongue..

His father called to drive him home.. but we made out for a few more minutes before he had to go inside to find his friends! I kissed him goodbye on the cheek. The bad thing about it is that I've heard from a friend that he may be a player :( But it's a good thing that the first thing he did when he got home was to add me on Facebook, right?!

Should I tell him that he was the first guy I've ever kissed, or is it going to scare him away?

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So... yeah! I told him :) He smiled and told me he was glad and felt lucky. Thank you for all the answers, you guys are great :)

[caniaskyousomething]

Well I think you should be honest with him. They say that honesty is the key to a good relationship... Who knows he might even think it's cute and ask for another?

Congratulations by the way! Was it awkward?

[bee1994]

Thank you for your answer :) It wasn't awkward to kiss him, but while I was kissing him I were thinking of all the people who might see us.. I don't know if he noticed that I was holding back! I would have liked it more in private because it was a bit uncomfortable.. I was worried about people that might see us..

[caniaskyousomething]

Awh, that's cute! How old are you? Have you told him? Or are you going to tell him later? I think tell him :)

[caniaskyousomething]

And thanks for best answer! :)

[bee1994]

We're both 18 :) No, I haven't told him jet! Maybe.. but I think I'll wait :) Met him only once, but are going to the movies with him this Friday! alone or with a group.. don't know yet :)

[caniaskyousomething]

I think you should go as just you two (; do you guys text at all? And even if he is a player, doesn't mean you can't be the one to change that right? Good luck (:

[bee1994]

we both agreed to go alone! Many of my friends are going too, so it may be awkward.. (The premier of "the hunger games" ) Yes, we do! Thank you, that really helps :D

[caniaskyousomething]

Ah! I love the HUnger Gmes, did you read the books? Sorry anyway, how did it all go?

[bee1994]

Me too! <3 Yes.. I'm not done with the third book yet, but I will be soon :D It went great! :) We met before the movie and bought ice cream and talked. He is really sweet :) After the movie we kissed again! or.. emh, we made out! hehe..

We text everyday! even minutes after the date :)

[caniaskyousomething]

To me it sounds like it will work out, and he doesn't seem to live up to his name being a player and all. I'm pretty sure you are the one who might have helped with that! :) The third book is my favourite! It is just really good. I'm seeing the movie this Wednesday! :D Omg, why AFTER the movie? Was the movie that good that you guys didn't kiss during it? Hahaha, I'm glad it was good for yo both! :)

[bee1994]

I really hope it does :D haha, yes the movie was good, and I've never kissed someone in public yet.. I don't know why, it just didn't feel right to kiss while watching the movie ;) For me it was great kissing him after!

[caniaskyousomething]

Awh that's really cute lol. You might get used to it one day :) I'm so excited to see Hunger Games tonight lol. What do you guys talk about? I've never had a boyfriend so I wouldn' reall know lol :/

[bee1994]

Thx :) You should be excited! Did you like it? :) We talk about school, sports, random stuff and we laugh a lot together! Me nether, but maybe soon ;)

[caniaskyousomething]

Turns out I'm not watching it tonight after all :'( I've read the books and I've been looking forward to seeing it but now I have to wait to see it on Sunday :l

I'm happy for you guys, seems like you are a cute couple! What is he like around you, is he any different towards you than when he is with his friends?

[bee1994]

Oh, that's too bad :( Thank you! I've only met him twice so I don't know.. but I'm going to visit him this weekend :)

[caniaskyousomething]

ooohh, good luck :D tell me how it all goes ;) (if you want lol)

[bee1994]

Thank you :D I will ;) but maybe in the chat-window next time :)

[caniaskyousomething]

Okay good idea :)

[Kernelsprite]

I wouldn't tell him right away, strengthen your relationship first! But congrats on the kiss, I hope it was magical! :)

[Anonymous]

No. It's not necessary he knows every detail to your life

[bee1994]

thank you! :)

[ItalianTomatoes]

If you actually get into a relationship at one point you could try telling him, right now it doesn't seem important and is more likely to scare him off!

[Hyrule]

Sounds great but why would you say that? What purpose does it serve?

[bee1994]

I don't know :) haha..

[Hyrule]

Well there's your answer.

[Brando]

This

[stillagoodgirl]

I personally wouldn't because he'll instantly know that you're a Virgin too!