It seems that when you are younger, you become the "boyfriend" after a month of dating. However, at my age it seems women are a lot more particular about when they want to have the "Talk" This is the way I see it, by 2 months of dating I am who I am and I have revealed enough about myself that we can be exclusive. One more dinner, or one more conversation isn't going to make that big of difference. If a woman has to know everything about you before designating you her boyfriend than it would take years. I have found an amazing girl here at school that I have been for about a month. I want to get her off the market asap, so other guys don't realize how great she is I see a lot of posts about women can't get men to commit, well I would commit to being her boyfriend. It's not like I'm asking her to marry me. It would just be nice to have the boyfriend designation so we can both relax.
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It really depends. Around 2 months sounds like a good time to me though. I've never been the first to bring it up though because guys are usually the commitment phobic ones. Try bringing it up soon and see what happens. it doesn't have to be some huge deal, just tell her you'd like to be exclusive and ask how she feels.0