Should I act like it never happened and text him?

Okay so me and this guy met online and we do send sexual text messages back and forth sometimes. Last night we were getting pretty into it and then I asked him if we could maybe take it slow and be more romantic about it, but right after I asked, he sent me a text back saying that he was stopping. and I asked him why and asked him if he didn't like it slow but he never answered back...

Should I apologize for wanting it slow or should he have agreed to do what I want for once? And should I text him today?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Give him some space for a couple of days. He probably got worried that you were starting to get feelings for him (the words slow and romantic can be pretty blaring red flags to guys who just want to play around but don't want anything more).

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What Guys Said 5

  • He did you a favor by revealing his intentions. Sever your contacts with him. Suggest you not lure guys with hot sexual messages and then hold them up at the door. They will misread your desire for romance.

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  • you shouldn't need to apologize

    when you said you want to take it slow,

    I don't think he really took it seriously and just wanted to

    get sex or send dirty texts

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  • he is using you , hell of a f***ing guy!

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  • Yea please don't apologize

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  • Why the hell would you apologize to him? O:O

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    • I felt bad afterward, like I shouldn't have asked him that..

    • Someone MIGHT make the argument that those "rules" should have been established up front...but that is nonsense...I don't explain stuff like that to everyone on the chance that "something might happen" There was nothing wrong with what you did...relationships & communication are about TWO people...was not an unreasonable request...maybe he should try phone sex or go to a BDSM escort service...(:

    • Yeah maybe :P

      I just thought if he loved me like he said that he'd sometimes wanna do what I want to do, ya know?

What Girls Said 2

  • he sounds like a d***, not all girls want it rough he should have listened to you. dump this guy, and find a guy that'll do anything you want just to please you

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  • seems like a complete a**hole to me. don't bother contacting him back def not worth it

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