I was with someone for about 6 years, our relationship failed miserably let's call him A, I stopped talking to B for about 4 years of my relationship with A. I have known this other guy for about 12 years, we have been great friends, always very interested in one another let's call him B. B and I started talking about a year ago again, after my final break up with A, B and I started spending a lot of enjoyable time together, now all of a sudden A wants to change and prove that he can change and win me back. I've heard all of this before but it seems like he is actually trying. Now I'm torn because I have been very fond of B for 12 years and can not seem to get away from him, he is almost always everywhere that I am. What am I supposed to do?
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You know what A was like.
You've never given B a chance.
I think you should give B a chance. If you go back to A, and it doesn't work out (very likely) I doubt B will wait for you or have much respect for you. (I don't think men are too keen on women who go back to failed relationships. We have a saying ... only a dog returns to its vomit)2