He wants to be my boyfriend and I told him I wasn't sure yet.
I met him two weeks ago online. We went on four dates in one week. And then I went on holidays, and we have been talking everyday.
I am 22 and he is 27. He is quite an emotional guy, very much in touch with his emotions. He seems to be very sensitive and caring about other people. He has all these amazing dates planned for us. But he is a bit of a dreamer.
I think he would do anything I asked him to. He wants me to be happy. He said he would stay until I made up my mind and that nothing would change his.
He is funny and we get along well with each other. We can talk for ages.
He is an extremely good kisser and quite a passionate one. But he has agreed to follow my pace, and isn't pressuring me into sex in any way. Whenever I am ready. I have had sex with one other person before, but I'm not entirely sure about taking the next step yet. He knows this. Although the more I talk to him, the more I fell comfortable about it and am starting to look forward to it.
However I am worried about him being so emotionally. Because I wonder if it could go the other way. Or how long it will last. We are very different. He goes with the flow, follows his heart. I need security, I think things through many times, before I make a decision. I think we could balance each other out or end up hating each other. I feel sexual chemistry between us, but I'm not completely sure about his looks just yet. It's not that he is bad looking, just not the typical guy that I would be attracted to. He can be quite goofy and childish and I know that in the long run that might annoy me. But he might also teach me to relax.
What do you guys think?
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I think if you are unsure about it, tell him that you would like to wait until more time is spent with each other to make such a big commitment. It seems to me your so hesitant because you don't like to jump into things willingly without prior thought like you said. I think if you give it time, you will start to see more features that may draw you in more or repel you in which your decision could be a little easier for you. As for as compatability, I dated this girl for 10 months. Really beautiful, just not my type. Had a completely different personality than I would normally go for, but not nescessarily in a bad way. Different views on certain subjects. But I ended up loving this woman faster and harder in 10 months compared to my 2 year relationship (my longest). She provided a whole new insight in which my views were only biased from dating the same type of woman for the longest time. Unfortunately we foughtg too much. So we ended. But the reason why I am explaining this to you is because your situation is very similar to mine in a sense of compatability. I think that you are really into him, but you just need more time to make a decision since its only been 2 weeks. Tell him that and he'll understand. But I think you should definitely give him a try if he doesn't provide any reason to not date him.0