I've had two dates with this girl at my school. We have a ton in common and my friend set us up because we both thought each other were cute.
Thursday I took her to get ice cream and we physically flirted a lot. We came back and watched a movie and had a great time. Talked, flirted, etc. I walked her back and it was probably 50-50 moving in for the kiss.
-We kissed, she hugged me, then kissed again. She was smiling the whole time and we planned for something Sunday
Sunday she came over and I made her some food I already had at my place. She was wearing sweats and a sweatshirt and we just hung out. Also she has left her DVDs here both times. I walked her back.
-We kissed, then she hugged me and patted my back, then we kissed again and planned for possibly something during the week.
I don't mind the slower pace, but are these all good signs?
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Sounds to me that's she's just a little shy. She's into you clearly - otherwise she would respond to the kisses and return them, she also wouldn't keep making plans to spend time with you again and again.
Maybe next time you hang out - try initiating a little more contact during the date. I mean nothing full on, she obviously likes to take her time in terms of getting too physical - but break the barrier of things just happening at the end of the date. If you want to kiss her during the date. Make her see the the date isn't just a mean to an end for you - that you're not just doing this so that at the end of it you'll get something; some girls think that way. We can get a little paranoid at times.
But honestly, it seems to me she's into you. The pace isn't slow really. You're just getting to know each other. You're sharing kisses. And it looks to me like she's just looking at you for the 'okay' as such. She's still tentative so initiating things more often - but not too often, might make her more confident in the idea that it would be okay for her to initiate things too at some point.1