Well, after 29 years I think it is safe to say I am doing something wrong, but maybe I can get your opinion.
I am a white male, 6'2". I am not a model, but I am pretty confident I am above average in the looks department. I work out and while I am not "ripped" I am toned and in shape.
I work in a sales/account management position and have several clients. I am not rich, but am building my business and working hard to do so. My business relies upon creating new relationships and maintaining those relationships, so needless to say I am comfortable around people and think I have an amicable personality.
Here's the problem, when I am out at the gym, the bar, a party or just any social setting in general I don't go out of my way to meet new people. I have grown a lot personally and professionally over the last 5 or 6 years and have conquered many of my confidence issues, but I've never taken the time to translate that into better success with women.
So ladies, here is my question...Based on the way I have described myself above, would you consider me a "catch" or at least solid dating material? Should I be more confident because I bring a lot more to the table than I give myself credit for?
I don't mean to sound arrogant, but I think I should be more in demand than I allow myself to be. Between my looks, my personality and my passion/drive to succeed, I think I posses a lot of the characteristics that women want in a partner.
Maybe this is a confidence boost for me or maybe I just need some validation, but based on what I've outlined above, would you want to meet a guy like me?
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The girl has a big eyes! lol I'm just playin'
anyways...here is what I believe, and although many people may not agree with me, I'll let it out. I believe that what's meant to be is meant to be, and that everything happens for a reason. It's not about what you're not doing, or what you're doing. Because you seem to have a good lifestyle for yourself. I own my own business, just like you and I meet people who walk in and out of my place each and everyday. The thing is how do you know?
..how do you know when you've me "the one." Well...simply you don't know.
if you meet a girl, and you think that she looks incredible, take a risk and go up to her and start talking to her, even if she wants nothing to do with you, you've still taken a step, a risk and that alone should make you feel good.
Be patient, your time will come. I promise.0
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