How do you get past women's emtional walls?

You know the ones that we talk about, girls that seem to put emotional walls up, so they don't get hurt by other men that just want sex or just want to use them for fun.


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Most Helpful Girl

  • You have to gain her trust..words don't mean that much prove it to her

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    • how do you gain her trust?

    • Be there, talk to her about her life bascily show intrest in her life

What Girls Said 4

  • I am that way. It's because we've either gotten our hearts bruised or lied to and deceived by other guys. We don't want to make the same mistake that we've done over and over again. We might get along with guys as friends just fine, but when it comes to a guy we like we become speechless. Sometimes instead of showing interest we hold ourselves back, if only the guy could see through us and know that we don't mean to complicate things we are just complicated within ourselves. Be patient with us, and get to know her on a casual level without the alcohol and loud music. As she starts to open up, she will also see what a caring guy you are. She tests you to see how much you are willing to wait, and/or climb the obstacles she has set for you. It's all about respect. If you make one lousy move, that's it. She's seen your true colors and will be cautious more than ever. We set these obstacles not so that you have to go through with all of them, but to make you think you do. And if you do take the high road.. we'll notice. We have a fairytale mindset when it comes to love.. be that prince charming.

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  • TIme and comfort. you gotta build up to that moment. it's not going to be easy or quick for her to trust you. just be there , that's all you need to do

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  • Befriend her

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  • It takes time...they have to know what you're really like and if they see that you truly are a good person they'll slowly start to open up. It's not going to happen over night but as she gets more comfortable with you she'll start telling/showing more emotion when she's with you.

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What Guys Said 3

  • You just be patient with her. You're going to invest the one thing that guys who want sex won't give: time. You're going to have to talk to her and listen to her. You can't be pushy on your needs, especially sexual needs.

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  • you find one spot on the wall and you slowy chip away until you find your way could take a hour. or 10 years but if she's worth it the chip away my friend but if not dont't waste your time with it:)

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  • Buy her a copy of Pink Floyd's "The wall".

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