Ok ill text this girl..sometimes she will text in 2 sentence texts but most the time there one word texts like...
Me - Guess what I get to do today?(7:32)
Her - What?
Me - I get to spend $200 to fix my car. Ill send you pictures when its done :)
Her - Cool
Me - Ill text you later have fun teaching :)
Her- I've gotta a lot of chores to do(9:54)
Me- that's what happened when your gone for 2days
Her- It was waas crazy a vacation form work and home. Woop! Woop!
Me - I'm glad you went,You deserved it for working so hard, I think you need a couple more vacations before School ends :D(10:03)
...A couple texts like that later...
Me- Hey are you still doing chores? Can I Call you?(10:38)
Her - Kinda(11:48)
..I call her and she seems kinda mad and is stressed out about how much work she needs to do.(call lasts 5mins)
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There are several things going on here. you're putting time frames on her text replies right? Are you sitting around and looking at your phone waiting for her response? #1 take the focus off of when she responds. Texting is like that. If a woman is busy, she can respond a couple of hours later or 5 hours later and that is OK. It also looks like you're not connecting with her on an emotional level, and texting her she's not really interested in. You're just telling her what you're doing. I was dating a guy who would tell me he was going skiing or hot tubbing, and there wasn't really anything for me to say back. There wasn't a question to respond to or anything really engaging. Telling a girl what you're doing will not connect with her heart, it is more or a disconnect. If you can say something fun and engaging that would be great. She also sounds busy, and maybe she couldn't focus on her work when you called her. She let you know she was busy, and you called her anyway. If she says she's kinda busy, you can text her "it would be great to talk to you. WHEN is a good time to call?" instead of saying CAN I call you? You can be direct and get better results. I would like to see you check out David Wygant and sign up for his free newsletter below. He will really help you learn some new skills. Check it out and let me know what you think! Feel free to contact me as well with questions.