me and my ex broke up and he said he didn't want me so I did my best to move on I met my current boyfriend was with him for maybe one month or 2 before my ex came crawling back into my life saying he loved me and wanted me back., I told him I loved him too but I couldn't hurt my boyfriend. we kept talking 6 months after that and I decided I was gonna leave my boyfriend and get back with my ex but I found out I was pregnant so I stayed with my boyfriend. now I'm 4 months pregnant and I still wanna get back with my ex but he doesn't know I'm pregnant I don't know what to do I need help
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Set your priorities right. Do you know the father of the baby? If you know, is he a responsible decent person? If the father is your most recent boyfriend and he's a decent and mature person, you've got to let him know that you are having this baby and then decide on whether you both want to keep this baby. If the father is your ex boyfriend and he's a responsible mature person, you have to let him know about this baby and decide what to do with the baby. Also, let important close people in your life (whether it's your mom, grandma, dad, uncle, relatives, good friend etc.) know about this. You will need someone to talk to about the pregnancy.
If you really want to keep this baby and have a chance in being with your ex, save up as much money as possible, get as much help as you can, and quickly get more jobs. If your ex isn't the father of the baby, let him know that you'll handle this as your responsibility and will not be financially dependent on him to support this baby. Do not ever use this baby as a tool to get back with him. Stay calm, have a clear mind, sort out your priorities and responsibilities, then try your luck with your ex. Good luck.0