One of this things I never understood, and I know it's common in some couples; when I was with my intended she had a habit of occasionally biting my lip when we were kissing.
I never saw the point of it, and didn't know how to react.
I accepted it, because I love her. I'm just not sure if I was meant to react a certain way. It wasn't a turn on for me, and I don't think it was a signal to go further.
What is with biting?
Because of my awkwardness and inexperience, and certain issues from her past; my intended and I never got together. We haven spoken for months. Through everything that has happened, I still love her, and I accept her in all ways.
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Biting is just a turn on for some people, whether it be in general or just during kissing like you describe. I'm one of those people. I love a little lip nibbling during a kiss, especially once things start getting heated. I like being bitten mainly, but I'm also a nibbler in general and will bite a little bit if I know the guy also enjoys that kind of thing. Like my ex liked biting and being bitten, especially while kissing, so that was a normal part of our foreplay activities. Whereas my current boyfriend isn't as especially into it, so I may occasionally nibble lightly on his lip or neck/ear in the heat of the moment, and he'll usually oblige me in a little bit of biting, even semi-roughly, if I request that he do it to me. I can't explain why I like it and find it such a turn on. The feeling and animalistic nature of biting just sends blood rushing to my groin, haha. =P
Nothing wrong with asking her not to do it anymore or requesting that she tone it down though if it's not something you particularly enjoy.1