So, I've been talking to this guy since about the end of February. We said I love you pretty early for me, I usually hold off on saying that stuff until later but I felt that way and I don't hide my feelings. he came over and we had sex, and he came over twice more that week and we did it those times too. Everything was OK but he is in a band so he is always busy and he didn't text me as much as before or call me just to call me. But I understand that he can't talk to me all the time. But I heard he was talking to this girl and it really affected me and I stopped talking to him for a few weeks and then after about 2 and half or 3 weeks I texted him because I felt like I over reacted because I knew we werent exclusive or anything and I was talking to some guys too but not seriously or anything. So we're talking again and he says he loves me and I know I love him. But I don't know if I should believe him or trust him when he says it. Can anyone tell me what any of this means? Or if I pushed him away while trying to get him? Any advice would be appreciated. Thank youuu
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Yes, we have many experiences with pop band members.
The music hook is as effective as football, et al. heros that are offered too many chocolates to know just which one is The One. As soon as they seem to settle on one (you), they are offered many more choices and continue to sample. Perhaps he loves you so much you move in with him. Pretty soon, you'll be getting calls from gals crying that also have slept with him, begging you to "let him go" so he can be theirs forever. Actually he doesn't want to be "let go", just wants to "love" you and continue sampling what he is offered as they fling themselves at him.
Yes, he loves you but this level of sexual gratitification, greet him like a pet when he returns from "work & relaxation" passions may not meet the high expectations you thought love was, although he might make this lifestyle comfortable if the money comes in. Oh, yes ... STDs from other women, oh my.0