I just had a nightmare loving my boyfriend who I found out was having another affair with 2 girls... So what I did wass broke up with him and thank God after 2 years I've learned to move on >.< I really loved him that's why moving on wasn't really that easy... going back I tried to date again and its like history repeating again ... are there still nice guys out there or should I just tell myself to get used to it and change myself so that I don't end up hurting...
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Don't change yourself for others, no matter what. That type of attitude means you're too weak, and that lets jerk guys walk all over you. Be your own person, and be the better person. Give everyone a chance, but try to choose better people next time. A ton of guys are jerks, and for some reason that tends to attract girls (at first, of course). It takes a while for you to realize that they aren't that great, and by then you've been hurt again.
Here's a tip: give everyone a chance, and that includes the guys who aren't as attractive or outgoing. The ones who get all of the attention let it go to their heads, and that's why you've been hurt so much. Look deeper into everyone before you make rash decisions and date the wrong guys.
Like I said, never give up, and never change. Don't chase after the bad ones -- let the good ones come to you! Good luck! :)0