DISCLAIMER: "date" in this question means friends with benefits and/or any intimacy with another person/people
I happened to think about those who date multiple ppl, and I wonder when (or if) he/she lets the other person know that they're open to date other people as well as him/her.
So everyone, please vote and elaborate.
Do you or do you not date multiple ppl?
Whether you do or not, do you think that this person should know on the FIRST date that he/she is open to see other ppl, so the person in question knows their true intentions and there will be no miscommunication?
Do you think that most people who date multiple people let the other person know about their dating practices on the 1st date?
Most importantly, WHY did you answer every question the way you did?
Thanks for responding. :)
- I date multiple ppl; I let that person know on the 1st date9% (4)6% (1)8% (5)Vote
- I date multiple ppl; I DONT let that person know on the 1st date14% (6)12% (2)13% (8)Vote
- I DONT date multiple ppl; he/she should let that person know on the 1st date70% (31)59% (10)67% (41)Vote
- I DONT date multiple ppl; he/she should NOT let that person know on the 1st date7% (3)23% (4)12% (7)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
It's the first date. I'm just trying to get to know you and have fun, not talk about what I do with other people. When I'm with you, I'm just focused on you why we gotta talk about anyone else? Let things flow naturally, you really shouldn't be caring about that anyway. Now when things start to get serious then that's when you would let the other person know, but to me its not necessary on the first date. I wouldn't let him know I'm open to it, nor would I ask if he is or not. I don't have any claims on him on the first date nor does he have any on me.2
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