hey so I've been out of the game for a year and a half. I'm 19 and just finished a date with a 21 year old girl. the date went well. we have a ton in common and flirting comes naturally. I didn't make any move though aka holding hands, arm around her or a goodnight kiss. I think I was a little nervous. I feel like she's more mature than the girls I've been out with before. she's a local where my university is and I'm not. I go to school and she works full time. she also has a car and I unfortunately do not. is there a way to show her I am mature and what should I do on the second date and yes we've agreed to a second but time and date are up in the air still. I guess I'm just a little hesitant but don't want to move to fast... or seem to shy and too slow and have that affect what could be. what should I do? by the way our first date was just a nice dinner and a short walk. any ideas for the next? we live in portland
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Theres nothing wrong with seeing someone you like right away. Make a day for next week/or the week after.
If you don't want to come on too strong just text her every two/three days asking how her day is.
She is a little older than you and a full-time worker while you are a student so it is expected that she has a little more than you.
If she doesn't find this a problem, you shouldn't either.
Dont let this be your insecurity. If she didn't like you for you, she wouldn't be considering your next date.