What is your point of leaving a relationship when it comes to actually spending time with your partner. Do you have to see them a certain amount a week or can you go periods without seeing them, as long as you feel everything is okay.
If you two have been dating between 1-3 months what are your feelings about this?
- EverydayVote A
- 3 days a weekVote B
- 2 twice a monthVote C
- Once a weekVote D
- Whenever. I don't need a cetain amount of time with them.Vote E
I already understand the way those generally work. This is more geared toward people still getting to know one another and dating. Not for those that have dated for a long time and go long distance.
Most Helpful Girl
No, I can go for a while without seeing my boyfriend. I love him very much and his job keeps us away sometimes. But when he is around we do our best to see each other.
Right now my boyfriend is off getting trained, he's in the military, so we make it work. Now we have been together over a year now, so we have had more time together. But I think if someone really loves you, they will wait.
Just because you can't see your boyfriend or girlfriend for a week, doesn't mean things are over. People that think that way are usually immature. Sometimes life doesn't allow for your lover to be with you all the time. You have to have more than seeing each other to make a relationship work.
Think about in the past when there weren't cars, people took boat or a horse and buggy. It could take months or even years to see their loved ones. And they managed. They wrote letters, they would send packages, do what they could to see or at least hear from each other.
Now a days it's made even easier. If you can't see your lover, give them a text message, shoot out an email, even send them a letter or a postcard if they are that far away. Communication really is key and if you can keep the lines of communication open, you can have a healthy relationship.0