So me and my girl were at a boxing class tonight and as I was reaching for my water in the cubbyhole we had our stuff in, I happened to see a text pop up from a number with no name saying, "I want to e*t you". Needless to say I was FURIOUS! I felt she was acting weird the past few days so, I'm sure that fueled my fire. I was calm when I confronted her about it. Saying I could stay in the class and I had to go. She asked why and I told her I saw a text message that didn't sit well with me. I asked if she knew what I saw and she said no and said not to come at her with an attitude like that that in the class and to just leave, all while being kind of defensive. And there was no attitude from me. I felt I was pretty calm about it eventhough I wanted to jump out of my skin! I texted her after I left saying I needed a couple things out of her car and how upset I was from seeing that msg. She replied asking if I even bothered to read the rest of it to which I replied, no, I wasn't snooping on your phone, I just happened to see it and what could possibly come after that to make it sound different! She explained where it came from saying it wasn't like how I took it and it was a reply from a mass text about a cute reply she made to it pertaining to her old boss. Like oh that baby is so cute I want to e*t it, or something like that.
Did I fall for some BS? Cause I kind of believe her. I feel kind of crummy for reacting like that but, who wouldn't have seeing a message like that right?
Quick back story, we have been together for about 4 months, had some trouble a few months ago(also a reason I freaked out)but nothing like what I just explained.
I said something about it.