I didn't hear from my boyfriend at all yesterday. No phone calls, text message, and he didn't even get on his laptop. I was worried sick that something might have happened to him. I was up all night worrying until he called me on his way to work this morning since I asked him to. He said he took a "no talk" day yesterday. I can understand that because I do that too. But I at least let him know I'm taking a day like that. I just think it would have been nice for a quick text saying he didn't want to talk and I would have understood. He thinks I would've gotten mad. He knows how my mind works and that when I worry about something I always think of the worst possible outcome. He said I need to be able to function without him which I can do. He says we don't need to talk every day. I'm not asking for a conversation every day but a quick text saying he is alive doesn't seem like much. Is that too much to ask? I don't understand how he thinks it is OK for him to disappear randomly. Is that a guy thing? Am I wrong for caring and worrying about him? I feel like the bad guy right now.
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You feel like the bad guy because that's what he wants. It's completely inconsiderate of your feelings to not tell you. And the excuse that you were gonna get mad? Did he not think you'd get mad when he went MIA for a day? Ask yourself 2 questions: first--would you do this to him and do you deserve the same treatment, and second--- how would he react if it was the other way around?
At the end of the day do the same thing to him if he decides he won't stop, but then again, why would you want to be with someone who is so inconsiderate?0