i ask this because it seems men are getting ripped off when it comes to dating advice.Any how what do you think?
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They help though.
Boredom can kill a relationship - you don't hang out with your friends to sit in awkward silence and have absolutely nothing interesting to do with each other.
Confidence is crucial for everything - it's the core ability to let that wonderful personality of yours blow the whole world away, and trample down several of life's obstacles. Nothing unsexy about a person who can stand on their own two feet.
Now you don't have to be the most hilarious guy, nor do you have to be 100% confident all the time ( no one is anyway,)
Every chick is attracted to something a bit different in every guy. When I go out, there are several guys busting jokes, or being goofy and light hearted.
Are they all attractive for being funny and confident?
Looks of course will narrow down the attractive pool - his style, how he carries himself, what his friends are up to, how he interacts with the world around him.
If we get far enough to chat with each other - then a hell of a lot of other sh*t comes into play.
Women are very detail oriented - so it's never just a " you need XY and Z " to be 100% appealing to the female world.
No matter how much we lie about it.
Ask a girl what she finds attractive in a man - she'll give you a million things and then some.
Ask a girl why she didn't find that attractive guy attractive - she'll still give you a million things and then some.
Wonder where that stereotype " women can't make up their minds / women are complicated / women are so picky" came from?
The fact that we can tear a man apart from head to toe mentally and make even the most appealing guys seem less then based on our own unique sequences of detail orientation in male potentials.
What makes some men more attractive than others I suppose, lies within who appeals best to more primitive ideals women have like how protective he can be ( strong physique,) domination factor ( confidence / Dominant in nature, not sucking up to women or being desperate,) masculinity ( a healthy amount of male ego, maleness, but not arrogant or seeping with testosterone.) Power of providing - how well does he take care of his self, is he self - sufficient - ( can he provide well?) That's a huge one.
Tis why society expects men to do this and that to apease the female gender and well, the man's masculinity itself.
Once you figure out what appeals to those deeper instincts women have in men, I'm sure you can up your attraction level.
Sex is a big instinct in men - lol women have been using that to our advantage for years...