I try to meet guys but they aren't interested and move onto other girls, or they come on to me with that creepy vibe that I just can't deal with. I don't know if I'm too strange for them or if I'm not attractive enough, but I feel like my technique of getting to know a guy and getting to be great friends with them first isn't working. I just don't think I could be with a guy without knowing what they're all about first, but somehow they always seem to end up with someone else. I'm not sure what it is these other girls have to offer these guys that I don't, or what it is about me that they find lacking once they get to know me.
So what do you find in a girl is a determining factor of wanting to pursue a relationship with them? What have been your reasons in the past? What did you see in them?
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I believe that when you get into a relationship, you literally have had to choose her from hundreds, perhaps thousands of other women. Before I started my relationship, I had been going out and socializing very intently for a long time, and I had met hundreds of girls. By the time I met Chelsea, I had a really good idea of where she fit in my life. I was in a position to know that there weren’t many girls who were as good for me as she was. Not only that, but people change.
Here are values that I look for and admire in a girl
I have my own path, and things I want to do with my life. In a way, you could say that I am married to these things – to my goals, etc. Any woman who comes into my life needs to understand this and have her own things going on. I really don’t need a girl who relies solely on me to keep her emotionally satisfied, and who if I’m out of town for a while is going to have to find that stability in some other guy.
Fun to be Around
You’re going to spend a lot of time with this girl, so you better make sure that she has the kind of positivity that you like to be around. She has to have a good sense of humor, and a feminine vibe that makes you want to be around her.
It is important to me to know that my woman will be loving and warm. That the caring that she gives to me, over and over again, will open me up and make me a more loving and overall positive guy.0