I'm happy with my girlfriend for 2 years and I'm not going to break up with her or cheat her, because I know nobody will be so good for me like her.
But lately I have crush on other girl with who I work , I love to look at her, fantasize about her every night, I feel like in heaven when she talks to me flirt, or smiles to me. But I know it's nothing serious anyway.
Is this normal? Does this happen to other people who are in relationship?
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I'm sorry but I think this is completely wrong. It's one thing to think another girl is hot and occasionally have her pop into your head but what you are saying about fantasizing about her every night, looking at her, and feeling in heaven when she talks to you is very unhealthy. There should come a point when you should start to practice a thing called "self control", and not for your own sake but for your partners sake as well. If you really cared about your girlfriend you wouldn't be allowing yourself to think about her. Obviously the emotion you get can't be helped but the way you act and work with it you can. I can control my thoughts and newsflash so can you. If you can't control your thoughts then you should tell your girlfriend. It's not fair at all towards her. Just because something is not right but considered normal does not make it acceptable. You can do something about this and it's as simple as controlling what and who you think about it.3