What if I am kind of scared to text the girl I like to ask her to hang out?

[Anonymous]

I kind of want to text her but I am scared to. I want to ask her to watch the Blackhawks game at the bar tonight because she is a fan.

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Well I texteD

[courtney06]

It's better to text then not say anything at all. As a female, I think if a guy likes me then do something about it. If he doesn't do anything I'll just assume he's not interested.

[Asker]

It is hard though

[elliesaur]

Just grow a pair and text her! Remember: courage isn't the opposite of fear, it's doing what you must do even if you're scared.

[Asker]

It is not that easy though I don't know what to do or what to say, I am scared big time. I just want her to say yes.

[elliesaur]

"Hey, wanna hit the bar with me tonight and watch the game? Drink's on me and I'm putting pizza in the game to bribe you some more." That'll do.

[Asker]

I am afraid though, I hope she likes me we have stuff in common and stuff.

[elliesaur]

Well if she does, I'm sure she'll accept. Now hurry up before she makes other plans!

[Asker]

That is true to I just don't like this fear.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

just go for it.

[Asker]

What if I am scared though?

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Your just texting its not like you two are face to face.

[Asker]

I am still nevous

[Xx_DRE_xX]

the choice is yours I'm not going to talk you into it if you find a way just to put it down.

[Asker]

It is not that I am trying to put it down but my fears keep talking me out of it. I really want to just shot a quick text but I worry she will say no.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Then oh f***ing well life moves on.