Hi! So this is my first time entering a question, and I really need some advice!
I've been dating this guy for about four months now, and I've never felt this way about anyone before. He told me a couple weeks ago that he thought he was in love with me. I'm 17 and he is 19. We've done everything except having sex.
Anyway, the problem is: the other day I was at his house, and after a couple of hours we ended up in his bed making out. After a while he tried to unbutton my pants, but I stopped him and said "no, you can't.." and he said "ok, yeah that's ok.".
The reason I didn't let him is because I knew I was getting my period some time soon. We were in his bed for several hours. When I got home I realized that I'd gotten my period, because there was I stain in my pants. No I'm so worried that I stained his sheets and bed as well, WHAT DO I DO?!
Do I ask him, or wait till he says something? I am pretty sure it stained, it's just my luck. I am so embarrassed, and I know I'll just start crying and telling him how sorry I am if he says something about it.
Oooor should I just be like "I think I cut myself on something when I was at your house, I didn't see it till I got home, but my finger was really bleeding! I was so scared I'd bled all over me or you or somewhere in your house! Hahaaa...?"
What if he saw the stain on my pants? I am mortified, and I don't know how it will ever be the same between us. Do you think he is grossed out and hates me? Cause I would totally get that. This have never happened before, and I just want to crawl up and die. This is two days ago now. I don't know what to do, please help!
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If he really loves you then he shouldn't feel grossed out at all ... maybe he saw , maybe he didn't, so what! .. if his behavior doesn't change then he is okay with it ( in case he saw it ) .. but you have to be more confident, you're a girl and this stuff happens , he has to deal with them! .. guys are pretty disgusting too ...
I once burped in front of my boyfriend , and of course I didn't mean it .. but he laughed and was okay it ( he hates people who burp and he imediately gets turned off) .. but he didn't when I did .. I felt a little embarrasssed but then I was like screw it , it happens to all of us :D
so don't worry .. and don't mention it ! .. if he says anything, then apologize how you were not ready and it came unexpectedly and offer to buy him new sheets , but DONT CRY lol.. there's nothing to cry about :D1