i have only had one boyfriend if you can even call it that, I was kind of blindsided to saying yes then he dumped me 2 days later...I am shy especially around guys at first but if we start talking then I open up really quickly but I am a little more forward when it comes to making friends with girls. I'm 5'10 blond hair blue eyes, small boobs (32B), cute butt and VERY wide hips, long legs,I and I dance so my legs are pretty toned. I know I am not the prettiest girl what can I do to have guys take interest in me?
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1. You are tall, and that is going to intimidate a lot of guys, especially ones who are shorter than you. Unfortunately, you can't really do anything about that, other than wear flats over heels so you don't further exaggerate your height. As you get older, and guys get more secure, this will be less of a problem.
2. You are shy at first, and so you probably miss it when guys notice you or are playing you extra attention. When they do this, they are looking for signs from you that you are interested in them too. If you don't give them those signs, they assume you aren't interested and they give up and move along. So you have to pay attention, and you have to find a way to respond (even just starting a short conversation) when they give you attention.
3. Your looks aren't a problem, so put that out of your mind. Focus on being more outgoing and working on your personality (let guys see you being fun and positive, and they'll want to be part of your circle and to get to know you). You have all the looks you need; it's your shyness and being oblivious when guys give you attention that's the problem, which also means a hair style or new outfit or losing a few pounds won't fix it. You're going to have to learn to take some chances socially by talking to some guys.0