would it be weird if I messaged a girl from one of my classes last semester? I don't know her all that well that's why I'm asking. How should I go about doing this?
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It's not weird if you play your cards right. Just play it cool, act like you were just bored and nobody exciting was online to talk to. Ask her how she is, and what she's up to. I just did the same thing with a guy I knew last term from college, and he took it very well. We had a very nice conversation and we talk back and forth some now. Just come up with a few questions to ask ahead of time so you are always prepared with something un-awkward to say. (How were finals/break/family/what has she been up to/anything exciting going on/etc.) Prioritize the things you think are most important to know, and then always have an escape... If she doesn't take the conversation well at any time, be prepared with an excuse to leave the conversation for a while or change subjects. Don't push it either... If you've small-talked each other to death, there is not a good chance that you will delve into deeper matters on the first conversation, so call it a day and try again another time.0