So I started talking to this guy and we are going out to dinner this week I'm a little excited but not going to get my hopes up anyways he is 23 and has a 4 year old son (you do the math) his son is a super cutie (I saw pics) and this guy seems really sweet and genuine and family oriented which is great. The thing that gets me is that he is a smart guy.. He is not the typical trailer trash type of person that you would expect a teen parent to be. He is into politics.. We actually talked politics and he is well spoken and seems actually intelligent... Wouldn't an intelligent person use a condom lol I'm just like shocked I want to see where it goes but I don't know I mean teen parents are just ewwy to me. But he Is an adult now so I guess it doesn't matter. I just don't get how someone so cute and smart could be so not smart enough to have a kid at 18/19... it's baffling. I may as well prepare myself since I'm sure I'll see a lot of this at planned parenthood lol
And he's pretty cute like he is super buff and looks like a total meat head but he is so smart he's like a nerd lol it's cute but I don't know it's weird that he has a kid like he just isn't the type to get someone pregnant as a teen... He's smart, smart people don't do dumb things like that
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it could be he was not so smart about who he dated..a lot of that going around. That's how he would up with custody of the kid. He was smarter than she was.
It sounds like you won't be able to get past the single dad status. You probably aren't ready to be a mother yet, so your chances with him are slim. He'll want someone who can take over that role, of course.2
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