Their is only so much you can do by yourself. Nobody ever returns my phone calls or want to do anything with me.
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It's sad you feel that way, but I think most people can relate to you, because everybody's felt lonely at some point in their life. It sounds like you're trying to make friends with people who you don't have much in common with. Or do you call by landline? Because using mobile phones can be expensive. I wonder if texting would get more replies.
I don't know what you do, but maybe you could go to university. People say that the friends you make there are the best friends you will ever make and I can see the truth in that. Or maybe you could do some hobby/activity which involves a group. For example, join a canoeing club.
If nothing helps, then maybe you should see a councillor or a psychotherapist and tell them this. they could help you get to the root of what the problem is. They might find out that it's you perceiving things the wrong way, or may find out why people would not want to do anything with you.
Don't define your life just by how many friends you have. You could start volunteering for a charity that you believe in. This will make you feel like your life has instantly been given more value as you will be doing more good than a lot of people.0