i like my friend and we get along great but she says that she wouldn't date me by saying I don't know you're a great guy but I just don't know what else to say but we flirt all the time in class. her father just passed away so I feel that I have to be there for her but I feel that since lately we seem to be distant at times that it would be in our best interest to just part ways all together with me saying if you decide you want to be friends like we were or date in the future we can chat but this is just too much drama for me to deal with?
ok how would you all handle my situation?
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By saying "I don't know you're a great guy but I just don't know what else to say " I think she's saying she doesn't find you attractive. You have nice personality traits but you're just not attractive to her. Your flirting probably just provides her an ego boost.
If you want this to go somewhere, you're going to need to start acting like a man. Be direct. Be a leader. Make plans and tell people what you expect. Basically, be bold without being an asshole. If you're the feelings/emotions expert of a relationship (the woman) what would she be?
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