We were only dating casually, but all these warning signs kept showing up making me think he had a girlfriend. I'd asked him about it before and he didn't answer me really. Then when something slapped me upside the head and my three best guys said he had a girlfriend, I said something about it. Now he's pissed and won't even talk to me, said I was crazy for flipping out over one thing. He doesn't know it was like ten things in a short period of time. When I confronted him he answered directly, but only after getting mad and basically saying he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. He said no, but it was a weird answer, like it was a new development that he was single. I really like him, and if I was wrong I really am sorry, and I told him so. He hasn't even asked why I would think that, beyond the one reason I had a chance to bring up when I talked to him. I know to back off, but is there something else I can do? Should I even worry about it?
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No trust = no solid foundation. You didn't trust him and that doesn't feel good. Sounds like he got pretty upset about it so he may be lieing to you. I'd leave this one be. Either way it's a bad deal. Don't go snooping around for answers from other people, go to the source. If you ever feel something is going on, keep quiet and just observe, you'll figure it out on your own. If he had been lieing, you would have eventually found some proof, without coming across as untrusting. If he wasn't lieing, you never would have jeopardized your chances with him if you hadn't asked.0