I've tried it all. tried showing girls that I'm the real deal, asking them on dates, going as far as to prove my feelings for them, online dating (which sucks). heck, I've even had girls online give me high ratings, only to not even reply to a short message/greeting. I'm not a guy to want casual sex, but part of me wonders how much successful I'd be, even online, if I were to simply put, looking for hookups or short term dating. I bet I'd get way more hits. shows what our worlds coming to right? :/
why does being a good guy have to be so difficult? it completely turns women off. it isolates you socially and shuts you off and away from women? when will it end? it's pretty discouraging and frustrating. our society, culture and public perception couldn't be more ass backwards from the way things should be.
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By abandoning traditionla dating nce and for all, Meet women on common ground, in a more 'organic' way, based on common interests and sharred experiences, not in a antiquated shopping mall relationship with all kinds of obstacles to really getting to know what kind of person they might be. Concentrate on women from cultures that don't have our highest-bidder kind of dating ritual.
Free yourself from the dating world, in other words. Yes, the 'normal' dating world has it completely wrong, as you say.2
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