It's definitely been proven to every guy 1st hand that being too "nice&sweet" to girls greatly reduces his odds of keeping a girl's interest
Also, that is better to be a little too mean, than a little too nice.
Luckily I learned this early in life.
To the girls you ask...WHY do you think that a guy being REALLY nice and REALLY sweet makes you / other girls LOSE interest in that guy?
Of course I can theorize forever...but why do that when I ask you girls on this site directly? :)
Feel free to be detailed and to use yourself or others as examples in your answer...and go anonymous if you feel you need that "security bubble" to answer the way you want.
Thanks for the knowledge! :)
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Being nice and sweet are fine ... but they aren't enough to carry a girl's interest. A guy needs the traits that spur attraction as well... fitness/humor/playfulness/interesting dialogue. The girl never LOST interest in the guy. He just never had it. He was trading favors for the illusion of having it, in some cases.3