Met a girl, had a one night stand . Then during the night another girl joined the bed...being a single drunk guy I fooled around with but didn't sleep with the new girl. The next morning I immediately regretted it because I liked the first girl , we now have a relationship 2 months later
Since there's a chance she could find out ( 2nd girl knows 1st girls friends) if she asks me, do I admit it and risk losing what we have? Lie or keep a secret from someone I love in order to preserve it or be honest and risk it all?
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it wasn't serious when you said it was a one night stand - I don't think she was being serious in the begining, but somehow it does turn out serious - I think - she probably knew it but wasn't sure, but you were sure about it but you didn't sleep with the 2nd girl too - so why bother?
i know you feel guilty but just take this secret with you to the grave, I don't think there is anything good coming up after you tell her, girls are sensitive about these kind of thing - treasure what you have, if she did bought up just tell her you were too drunk you don't remember and maybe it was a dream - and the only thing you are happy right now its - that one night stand turn you two became a couple! end of story! good luck!0