I went on holiday last week to Magaluf... for people that don't know, its a holiday resort in Majorca were people go to basically get VERY drunk and have sex haha, well that's the stereotype it has...
While I was there I slept with this swedish guy (he was gorgeous, proper fit.. no way was I saying no haha) and well in the morning he was so keen for me to add him on Facebook, kept asking me his name and got me to write down my name on a piece of paper... and he waved bye from the balcony as I walked away (very cute haha)... not that I think ill ever see him again, but... I found him on Facebook and he is engaged :/ I feel pretty bad like, and I'm debating on sending a message to his girlfriend... I would want to know if it was me, but obviously I don't really know him and I don't know her... I'm waiting to see if he accepts me on Facebook like.. but do you think I should just leave it? What happens in magaluf stays in magaluf, and move on? x
- Leave itVote A
- Tell herVote B
I don't think I'm going to tell his girlfriend though, I doubt she would believe me and I don't know them, so I don't know what's going on.
"what happens in magaluf, stays in magaluf"
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I don't think you should tell her. If he cheats regularly then she's likely to find out sooner or later when he does something nearer to home. It will be better if she finds out for herself. If he does it often, then he's going to get caught out eventually.
If you were a one off while he was on holiday then it's up to him if he tells her or not. If he can live with the lie and thinks it is better to keep it secret so that can continue in their happy relationship and everyone will benefit from nothing being said, then that's his choice. If he wants to come clean and tell her then they can work it out themselves and it will be better for him to be honest rather than her finding out some other way. He may want to tell her but not show her your Facebook profile so she knows exactly who it was!
Basically, I think you should just leave it because ultimately you know nothing about their relationship. You have no idea what telling her would mean for both of them and how it would affect their lives. In my opinion, you did nothing wrong and you have just been thrust into an unfortunate situation. Now just forget about it and move on. He's the one that did something wrong so he should decide how to deal with it.2