You like both guys, and have stated you want to be single (recent bad break-up), and both guys know what's going on. How do you eventually choose one guy over the other? What key factors/attributes, effect your decision? And how long does it usually take before you make your decision?
Ladies: when seeing 2 (or more) people at a time - how do you pick which one to have a relationship with?
What Girls Said 2
Well, I start to think about who I have a deeper connection with.
Who am I more compatible with?
Looks are always are plus but aren't the main thing in a successful relationship.
I start to look at personality traits.
I also ask myself questions like,
-Is this person ambitious?
-How often will this person spend time with me?
-How far does this person live?
-Will my family like this person?
-Do I see any negative qualities so far? What are they? Can they be dealt with?
-Is this person the faithful type?
-Do me and this person have a lot incommon?
The one I have more chemistry with, that I am more drawn to. It won't be because of something logical like how much money he makes or whether I think he would make a good husband or something. Usually it is pretty clear if you have chemistry with a guy or not so the only thing that drags out a decision like this is if you are being pressured to like the other guy more for some reason. That happens if the guy you likes is either not well liked by friends and family or the girl thinks people will feel she made a bad choice. That; however, won't get her to go with the other guy, it will just prolong the decision making.0
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