I just recently mustered up the courage to ask out a girl I've liked for a long time.
I texted her and asked if she wanted to hangout sometime or see a movie, and she said , "yeah,maybe" "Im at a softball fundraiser roght now so Ill text you later."
I take it as this means
1. She wants me and doesn't wanna seem desperate
2. She wants to leave her options open while she decides
3. She wants to never text back and let me down easily.
We are both 15, I will see her at school Monday.
She hasn't texyed back, she said that at 6, and its 12 now. So hopefully tomorrow. How long do I wait before texting her again?
What do I say to her in person?
I feel like the ball is in her court.
I am, indeed, 15
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The ball is most definitely in her court. Unfortunately, I think #3 is the most likely explanation for her behavior. Look at it this way: If you were asked out by a girl you really liked, would you jeopardize your chances with her by saying "maybe" when she tried to arrange a date with you? Of course not! The same logic applies to her; she's giving you the brush-off because she's not interested.
I wouldn't text her again, and I wouldn't say anything about a date to her in person. She already knows you're interested; she doesn't need to be reminded. If she's interested, she'll want to go on a date with you. If she's not interested, she'll give you wishy-washy answers, hoping you eventually get the hint and leave her alone.2